Hi, I’m William Zenobia. Welcome to ‘A Stranger in the home’

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From the Heart of William

This page is dedicated to the blended families, step parents, and the children Our vision is to bring clarity, support, hope, and vision. To help you increase your relationship with your spouse, the children, and those you associate with as friends and family.

You are not alone ever though you may feel that way and even with your own spouse you may feel like a Stranger in the Home.

When I married my wife Martina she was the woman of my dreams. Plain and simple. When I woke up after our wedding I had four children. We have navigated the challenges and success and the sacrifice necessary. Sometimes well intentioned family and friends even though they have your best interest at heart can’t relate to what you are truly experiencing.

Two of the most valuable things we have discovered is a relationship with God has sustained us at the most difficult times. And our relationship and your relationship with your spouse must be solid and nurtured everyday.

What’s in it for you?

If you are a blended family, a step parent, a parent, or child in this scenario, I’m sure you have had your share of challenges and frustrations.

If you could communicate better with your spouse, with your child would that be helpful?

What were your expectations or what are they currently? Are you overwhelmed and full of anxiety or stress? Would you like to better navigate the complex world of being a part of two different world’s and having a better understanding of what you can and can’t control?

Communication is your first step in developing a functional home. Communication isn’t always the easiest. We often think of communication as something we do in passing. For instance “Grab a gallon of milk on your way home and a loaf of bread”

Communication is not just in your verbal and written word but also in your body language and how you react to certain situations.

How would you like your home to be a refuge instead of a war zone?

There will always be disagreements and confrontation in a home. Biologically we are all different and have our own expectation and our own views. We all need to have a sense of belonging.

If you are willing to take the first step to becoming a home with refuge then we can help.

We help by getting the spouses on a solid path to communication. Staying connected on a daily basis and even improving your intimacy. Intimacy starts with good communication.

How would you like to discover the source of your child’s out breaks and insecurities? It might be deeper than you realize.

We can share insight on why these issues may be happening.

We understand that even the most well intentioned family or friends don’t know what its like to be part of a blended family. It’s not the same.


William has spent his time working with individuals, couples, and groups. He has spoken in front of small crowds and large to institute unity and communication. His style is educational and practical with big results.


William has taken his experience from his time in industry. His time in sales and ministry has given him the fortitude and knowledge to help others breakthrough challenges. In the areas of step parenting and relationship building.


William has been a leader in the areas of coaching and counsel. He has led and organized events large and small , while collaborating with others and teaching them the fundamentals of leadership. He leads several groups.


William’s story of transforming his own life into a full and successful life is the inspiration behind her topics around teaching others that it is possible to do the same through communication. He enjoys teaching the importance of communication.

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